Help i have 2 guy and i dont know what 2 do?

ok well i have this guy who i love with all my hearts and his my babys daddy but he calls me stupid and lazy which im not and well he just treats me bad but i still love him he doesnt hit me or anything like that but just how he talks 2 me we r not going out or anything like that but i just love him 2 death and well ok i have this other guy i just met like 5 days ago and he is so different from my babys dad he treats me rite he is really nice 2 me and my baby it was just my b-day and he gave me some flowers and well we just started talking but my babys dad which i know 4 like almost 3 years now didnt give me anything but well whatever i guess i just wanna know what guy shoul i choose my babys dad who i love or the other guy they both say they love me but my babys dad says he cant be with me til i get a job plz help

Help i have 2 guy and i dont know what 2 do?
Well this is obvious! But also remember im sure your baby's daddy treated you like that when he first met you too. So good luck!! But I'd just go with who your heart tells you too. Keep the new guy around and see where it goes? who knows! Good Luck
Reply:5 days ago dats too short mayb u should wait. after like a month ofw/e den u should pick. u kno who theright guy is. if u pick the wrong guy ull know hes wrong and ull pick the right guy


kinda confusing??? lol
Reply:Get a Job and then decide... See how it goes from thier -- why rush anything.
Reply:Does ur babys dad pay the bills? If not, dump his a s s and move on or your gonna be unhappy forever.
Reply:he calls you stupid and insults you and says he cant be with you cause you don't have a job.....now does that sound like love to you. are you one of those girls that likes being run down and called names...i don't think so...you should move on with someone who will take you for who you are not what they want you to be. so dump this guys he is a jerk..and has no respect for you or any love for his baby...or he wouldn't treat you this way...he is a loser.
Reply:Dont be confused by someone you just met 5 days ago, It is always new and exciting at first. Its the ones that stick through with you that should count, unless you are not married to your babies daddy, if not, and you dont feel like he loves you then take it one day at a time.
Reply:First of all, you need to stop thinking about these guys for a minute and think about your baby and yourself. Your child is the most important person in your life and he should be your first priority. You need to get a job so that you can support your baby and get yourself straight before thinking about anyone else. When that is settled, you need to choose someone who respects that you have a child and is willing to help you, I don't know if the father of your child does, but if he does good, if he doesn't then you don't need him, the only thing you need him for is so that your child can have a father in his life, other than that if he treats you bad, then you don't need him for that purpose. With the other guy, give it some more time, he may say he loves you, but give it sometime to see what he is capable of and what he is willing to do for you and your child. Think about your baby and you right now, Hope that helped.
Reply:No man should talk down to you. He isnt physically hurting you, but verbally he is. Is there a reason you are not working? Is there a reason he keeps telling you to get a job and calling you lazy? Maybe he is really frustrated and upset. Talk to him and see why he is so upset with you all the time. But I have learned that just because you REALLY love someone, that doesnt mean he is the person for you. Keep the other guy around, and see how that goes. He will be so much better for you. It would be a healthier relationship. Just becasue the other guy is your babys father, doesnt mean you HAVE to be with him. You be with a man who makes you happy. Who makes you feel good about yourself. Who helps you when you are down. Thats wat you and your baby need. Hope this helps! take care :)
Reply:juss go wit da 1 u love most nd 1 who treats u better and if not juss dont go wit no1
Reply:So I guess your baby's dad is no longer your boyfriend. Go be with the other guy.
Reply:Well you have barely met this new guy for 5 days. Don't take any action right now, if this new guy continues being the way he is and wants to be with you and your baby, then why not. I think it's just too soon to do anything, you don't know him as good, take some time and get to know him better. I honestly don't think you should stay with your babies father because from what you say, he is not nice at all, why do you want somebody like that who makes you feel completely useless, I mean you are his babies mommy! Don't erase him from your baby's life, but do erase him from yours, move on and just take it as an experience.


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