Should I believe him?

My boyfriend other baby momma sent me an email with a letter from 4 years ago saying that he didn't love me and he wanted to be with her. At this time he had been caught up cheating on the both of us. I was pregnant at the time and she had just had a baby. ( hesays isn't his) Anyway, in the letter he says he wants to be with her not me. But at the same time he was sending me the same kind of letter. Of course 5 years ago I didn't know about the letter so I got back with him. Now I know about the letter. Do forgive him and move on. Or should I leave because now I know how he felt back then. I kicked him out the house and sent his clothes to his mom's house. He sent me flowers apologizing and he wont read the letter. He says it's in the past and that I should move on and that we have a good life together. What should I do?

Should I believe him?
This guy sounds like a dirt bag. You need a real cookie. Here you go, two cookies and a glass of milk. O O \_/
Reply:honey dump his stupid ***.and move on or you be his stupid *** Report It

Reply:he dont deserve you Report It

Reply:Lies lies lies.....she is jsut trying to mess with your head to steal your man.......don't believe her and talk to your man about this...cuz that's a messed up move from her.....
Reply:I wouldn't be with him. Plus, he has a baby momma meaning, she's going to be a part of yall's life! He seems like one of those playa guys and I wouldn't waste my time fooling with him if I were you. But if you really love this guy and you think he's SINCERE and wants to be with you only (trust your instincts) then stay with him. No one can tell you to leave him if you're not ready to leave him. You can only make that choice yourself. Trust your heart and your instincts.
Reply:Is this the same guy you did not know where he was for 3 days a week ago?





You should not believe him.
Reply:Go on Maury or Jerry Springer
Reply:Those were confusing times...if his actions since then have not made you feel like they have been true this whole time, then let it go...judge him for what kind of partner he has been..not what he was nor something so long ago that you didn't even know about.
Reply:i think you would be better off without him, but that's my opinion,from the information you have given, YOU are the only one that can decide on what you need to do,if you look to your heart, you'll know


the fact that he is canceling on you should point you in the right direction
Reply:well first of all it is the past, and people change over time, maybe he was confused at the time and then he realized heloved you more than he thought, i would at least talk to him
Reply:wake up girl don't believe him just move on with your life he's a jerk.U already survive with out him go on someday there's a better man aside from him that will come into your life.He has no word of Honor and he is a man ...too much he done for you and its enough stop hurting yourself..love your baby and move on without him good luck.
Reply:Dump him, he's wasting precious time.
Reply:NO YOU SHOULD NOT BELIEVE HIM. HE IS A DOG AND A LIAR AND CHEAT! DUMP HIM- SEND HIM TO THE POUND!!
Reply:How has he been since you got back with him? You need to look at that too. If he's been acting wierd, chances are that he has another woman.
Reply:What you need to do is move on with your life, the guy is not worth it. He sounds more like a Casanova to me. He is not going to change unless maybe a miracle happens. Spend less time with him and thinking of him, start spending time with friends, male and female. In time you will come across someone who loves you just the way you are.
Reply:Dump his Ace. Get some respect for yourself and move on.
Reply:Short answer: No. Long Answer: No, but make him pay long and hard before you get rid of him. Don't listen to these liars, revenge really feels oh so good.
Reply:Well it is a very complicated situation. However, I think the past is the past and to bring it up now would not be very wise. What happened then is over and done. Re opening old wounds does nothing but hurt you and him as well. Maybe he has changed from then, but I think that you might look at his actions since you got back together. Weighing out his actions since then up to when you decided to bring it up should answer alot of questions. Trust your gut instinct on it. Usually the first instinct is correct.
Reply:girl you should leave him!! especially if it's in your heart. you know he's going to do it again and if he knows that your gonna come back to him and forgive him then he's gonna think he's got you and that other girl wraped around he's finger. ***good luck***


PS. LEAVE HIM don't get hurt again. find a good man that will take care of you.
Reply:You need to kick him to the curb. You sound like you have had to put up with too much already. If he keeps canceling at the last minute something is up and if you already have a child there is going to be tension and you don't want that around you child. He probably realized that he was caught up and his comfy home is now disturbed. Haven't you heard the saying that they don't know what they lost after it's gone. You are better than that..... find someone that meets your half way....good luck.



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