What does this mean???

I had alot of problems with my b/f, he is very dismissive of my feelings or needs. Long story short, I (think) I realized that he is just never going to be able to love me the way that I need to be loved. While we were fighting he hung up on me and that made me extremly upset so I called him and left him a very mean, nasty meesage calling him a loser and that he does'nt even deserve. That I never wasnt to here from again. I even went to his house a through on his bed some flowers that he gave me. I thought that that would have been enough for him to be soooo mad that he would never want to call me again, but he did. He called me and asked why I left (through) the flowers there. I replied cause I don't want anything from you. He called again, this time I didn't answer and he left me a message saying "Baby why are you acting this way". He acts like this is out of no where. There are events that got it to this point. Is he just playing/toying with my emotions?

What does this mean???
Hey, first of all ... sorry for the break up.





Guys are kind of not as mature as girls, and like most guys i know have no idea how to express what they feel. Flowers are a clue that he does care, but if you're trying to get a guy to talk ... the direct way don't work.





By the way ... sending the mixed messages does NOT help. Guys don't understand something unless u say the same thing the same way like 1 billion times until they finally hear it. I'm a guy so I know. This happens to me all the time.





I'd say if u want to get a guy to talk, go on a long drive, and talk about a few other things first, and then just ask his direct opinion on the things you want to know. And then move off the topic onto something u both can relate to again.
Reply:yah it happened to me so he is just playing with ur emotions, let him feel the pain not u..... girls dont deserve boys like that so u should just brake up with him and move on.. its not easy because i loved this one boy and it was on and off and then i said were through, so u just have to let him go... srry but its the right thing to do!
Reply:He doesn't understand your needs, or he's just toying with you. Either way, you need to not give into this guy. I've been following your whole story FinallyFree, and you really need to ditch this guy and find someone who will actually treat you nicely.



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