I need some advice.?

right i have been with my partner for 2 years and 3 months , i have recently had a miscarriage and there has been a girl tht tried splitting us up before and i dont know whether to believe her when she says tht he slept with her 17 weeks ago , i was pregnant then too,





i have one of the mail messages she sent to him here, and i was talking to her on line the other day telling her to back off and she told me tht i wont understand how good he made her feel, how would she know in what order my partner does things and personal things about him if nothing happened and what his favourite positions are and everything, i have spoke to my partner about this and he said nothing happened , i am trying so hard to believe him but he hasnt really given me an explanation , he said to me last nigth he has done nothing wrong , but he wants to get me a card and some flowers to say sorry , why though if he has done nothing wrong, i lost our baby on the 1st of feb and it hurts like hell to think this

I need some advice.?
I have to admit that he does sound guilty. And with her knowing personal information about your boyfriend... I would consider it a given. Keep in mind that your in a relationship with him not her. I wouldn't have any contact with the other woman as she has no obligation to tell you anything .. neither truth or lies. Your confrontation should only be with him and make your decisions based on how you feel about what he says not at all about what information she chooses to share or not share. Hope this helps !
Reply:well, it is only a choice on your part


to believe him or not


please, don't confront her anymore...it only makes you look desparate and i am sure you don't want to look that way


if he wants to say he is sorry, let him...maybe he is just sorry that you felt bad about it


your being pregnant and losing the baby will make your hormones race and this might make the situation worse than what it really was...think really hard about what was going on 17 weeks ago and maybe you will find that you need to cut him some slack...otherwise, cut your losses and get on with life
Reply:while going to sleep think over your problem and ask your own mind and it help you.



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