Help! Am i making the right decision! i know?

thanks for all the advice with my situation. I am going to call it off with cassie gently but i will tell her that i will always be there for her and our baby and that my heart belongs to jess. I know she broke up with me because i cheated on her but i will prove to her that i still love her alot. I got a diamond ring a bought a year ago after saving my paychecks to buy one and i was going to surprise jess until she broke up with me. I am going to prove how much i love her. I got 247 dollars in my wallet and i will by her chocolate, flowers, a cute teddy bear and i will prove to her that i love her alot, i am crazy about her. I know she still loves me just mad at her. she is in the hospital because she may loose our baby. We are only in high school too. I am going to go out now to the store to buy her flowers/chocolates etc and when the timing is perfect, i will surprise her tonight or tomorrow night in the hospital with a romantic evening. i dont wan to hurt cassie but i love jessalot

Help! Am i making the right decision! i know?
Nobody deserves you...seriously....I can't think of even one person that would deserve to have you as their boyfriend. And are Cassie and Jess retarded?
Reply:yeah. why does ur name say "i_love_cassie_4ever"?
Reply:i think you need to do alot of growing up! all of you! yourabout to bring an innocent baby into this world, and he/she needs someone who is going to need alot of care and love, and it sounds like to me the baby is not born yet, and is already in trouble, because its parents are as immature as he/she is!
Reply:Hmmm your in a bit of a predicament arent you! I dont understand why you feel the need to pick one or the other, i mean why either, i know they are both pregnant and yep that is now 100%your responsibility as a father to both of them but you dont have to be with one of them, you just need to show them both that you care, be mature and supportive. Give all of you some time to work out how your feeling, you might just be feeling so lovey because they are both so dependant on you rite now and you have a strong connection together. Take some time just be there for them, you dont have to go proposing etc that is a sure heartbreaker for the other girl. Just take your time be there for them, thats all you need to do rite now.


Good luck.


And its really good to see that you are taking so much responsibilty for your actions, these are your babys, you need to be a daddy and a careing friend for they're mums now.


Congratulations!
Reply:hi there


It's hard for anyone to gain trust from a love one that has done wrong the pain the tears will never replace it unless there is forgiveness. We as humans can forgive but can not forget. A betrayer is one of the worst no matter how well it is understood. The plain fact it that to gain that love that trust we have to work hard into it. stop thinking about yourself for a moment and think about two families two young ladies (teens) and thier future it's a whole new ball game and no one is at homebase. WHAT EVER HAPPEND TO PROTECTION no excuse for the moment of pleasure is not worth your pain or thiers. Be true to yourself and honest to the familes.





You are confuse two ladies and two babies coming to a world not ready to enter. your all in high school you as the father must really work to help two women whom believe in you. It's not the babies fault for they are angels from heaven. It's time to take and make your goals for the future as best you know and can make of it.





In the mist of your daily storms , make it a point to be still and set your sights on a better 2tom.


Be still. Be quiet, Be open , and willing .


Forgiveness comes easier with a wide- angle lens.


Think really good towards your outcome it can be your last.





Good judgment requires a broad picture. it's true in evaluating life. One failure doesn't make a person a failure.One achievement doesn't make a person a success.


The end of the matter is better than it's beginning penned the sage."be patient when trouble comes echoed .





We only have fragment . Life's mishaps and horrors are only a page out of a grand book.We must be slow about drawing conclusions. We must reserve judgment on life's storms until we know the whole story.


" Do Not worry about tomorrow ,for tommorrow will worry about itself."





trust also in god for all your troubles .








Be well, Be safe God Bless
Reply:when a woman's fed up she's fed up
Reply:Wow, it sounds like you have a lot on your plate for being young yet. I will keep Jess and the baby in my thoughts and I hope it all ends up well. It sounds like you have a more realistic and down to earth companion in Jess as well. It's more important to be friends than just sex partners if you want it to last longer than a month or two. More than the flowers and chocolates, you just need to be there for Jess and let her know you're not going anywhere and if you do it won't be without a fight. A single white rose to say you're sorry and to offer a sign of peace with a note that you'd like to try and work through things and you realize what you did was horribly wrong would probably be nice.





As for Cassie, your best bet is just to make a clean cut and make sure she knows that nothing will happen like that again. You don't have to be mean, just straight forward and honest and tell her you don't want anything to do with her in the future so that you don't jeopardize things with Jess.





Best of luck to you and Jess! Hang in there - if it was meant to be it will all work out with patience, understanding, love and time.
Reply:Better change your screen name
Reply:lol who is actually going to read all of this??? are u serious??



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