My sister-n-law just miscarried...?

My sister-n-law just miscarried her baby (she was 12 weeks). Is it proper to send flowers? If not, what should?

My sister-n-law just miscarried...?
Yes,just avoid anything(cards or gifts) that have a baby on them.
Reply:i would just spend time with her right now...not even to talk about the miscarriage. Some people after miscarrying feel very lonely. If she wants to say something about it then she will. I didn't want a bunch of people telling me that they were sorry so i didn't say anything to the people that didn't know i was pregnant in the first place
Reply:When I miscarried, I was sent a bouquet of small, white Roses. It was the most beautiful gesture.
Reply:just avoid baby theme....
Reply:sure send her flowers or a card that says you are thinking of her or sorry for your loss. i got my friend flowers after she had a miscarriage and had to have a D %26amp; C and she really liked them.
Reply:Flowers no...just offer your support right now
Reply:this is a hard time for her right now. I would send her flowers, let her know that someone is thinking of her and that someone cares. She more than likely feels like she lost a part of herself.





When I miscarried last year my best friend got me flowers and it made me smile. It didnt take away all the pain but it helped me alot!
Reply:Yes I think so. It is very hard even though you never met the baby. I think anything you can do to show her you are thinking of her is nice.
Reply:No, just be there for her.
Reply:I think sending flowers or a card that simply lets her know that you are thinking about her is a very good idea. It validates her feelings of loss. That's what we do when someone dies. Most people don't think of a miscarriage that way, but it is...this baby was a real person and the mother has to be allowed to grieve her loss.
Reply:That's sweet of you to think of that. I would send flowers and maybe a gift certificate to her favorite restaurant.
Reply:flowers of course are always nice- you could give a gift basket of food and or bath products- really anything that shows that you care is good. It is great that you are interested enough to ask. Sometimes people have the tendancy to fail to realize that a miscarriage is a diffcult time for a couple. Good for you for realizing this.
Reply:That would be really nice and probably help make her day.
Reply:Flowers are nice, if you're close. Otherwise just a phone call or card.
Reply:What girl doesn't want flowers? Sure, send her flowers and card saying better luck next time, she'll appreciate it!
Reply:you are very thoughtful. flowers with a nice card is fine in this situation. it's just like any loved one that has passed away.
Reply:Flowers, hugs, prayers for comfort, kind ear or a shoulder.


It's all good.



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