Is staying with him worth it?

My boyfriend's longest relationship lasted only 2 weeks and I'm the first girl he's ever lasted more than that with ( 1 1/2 months). Because none of his relationships have lasted longer than us, I'm starting to realize he doesn't know how to be a good boyfriend and do the things I would like him to like call me at ramdom times jus to say "hey baby how you doin" or plan romantic dates or get me flowers.. WHAT SHOULD I DO???

Is staying with him worth it?
Hey, your young, it's not your turn to take care of some dude who need to grow up. Why take on this big problem at this time in your life. Don't start to be a person who takes care of others all the time, who thinks they are going to fix everything! Because these kind of people find them self at the end of the line, unappreciated, and not loving them-self as much as they should, Work on yourself, and be the most important person in your life! You'll be happier in the long run I'm sure!
Reply:you know a lot of guys are dfferent, and since he hasent had a long relationship then maybehe just doesnt realize he's supposed to do those things, bt brin it up to him and be like " call me tonight" or just ask him why he doesnt call you. And if you want to go out drop hints like saying, i really would like to go bowling i havent done that in so long or wow i love chinese food and i heard they just opened this great place on the eastside. And if he's smart he'll get the hint otherwise Dump him some guys are just not worth it if they dont want to make the effort. plus there are plenty of guys out there. girl its only been month and a half its not that serious, your young so go out and meet some new guys and date to keep yourself tied to one guy until you find one worthkeeping around
Reply:Get away and get a real man with an outlook for the future. Someone with some goals even if it's just being married and raising kids. Those kind of people are responsible and last. Good luck!
Reply:For one that is weird if his longest relationship was two weeks.That's just sad.And when he calls just to say hey honey what you doin, that's his way of checking on you.Not in a suspicious way but in a caring way.I am glad you are his longest relationship because it sounds like it is getting more serious.
Reply:Actually it could be that he doesn't realize what women expect. Let him know how you feel. Maybe you can teach him. Try to communicate with him before just splitting up. Many guys have no idea what the word romantic means. If he isn't interested in doing things to make you happy, dump him.
Reply:Tell him what you want. He doesnt know how to be a good b/f because his longest relationship was only 2 weeks.(in 2 weeks I knew very little about my g/f) so just give it time and try and deal with the fact that he really has the slightest clue of what he is doing. Hope this helps and may your relationship flourish.
Reply:Leave him..It sounds like he doesnt know how to treat a lady you desrve better than that....If you stay with him you may miss your chance of meet the right person for you.



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